Apparently, I told some folks that marriage is not for two perfect people; rather it is for two matured people. You can’t just get into marriage without getting ready to face any situation you see.
Marriage is a union between two matured people. Be wise and prayerful so as to avoid some certain mistakes in choosing spouse. That aspect should not be ignored.
The worst thing that can happen to you is when you marry the wrong person. It is better you be a single believing God to be married than to be married praying to be single again.
Why am I saying all these things?
Yes! It is because I don’t want you to be caught unaware. You will never have peace of mind if you get into a wrong marriage. People rush into marriage without understand its concept and context.
Here on this article, I will be highlighting several things you should know about marriage before getting into it. Scroll below; to see full detail
Your Partner Must Have A Weakness:
Every rose flower has its own thorn. Every personality on this planet earth has a weakness and it is only God has no weakness. If you focus too much on your spouse’s weakness, you can’t get the best out of his/her strength.
Everybody Has A Dark Story:
No one is an angel, therefore, avoid digging one’s past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away. Try to forgive and forget. The past can’t be changed. So focus on the present and the future.
Your Marriage Must Have A Challenge:
Marriage is not bed of roses. Every shining marriage has gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved in time of challenge. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in time of needs. Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day.
There Are Different Levels Of Marriage:
Don’t compare your marriage with anyone. We can never be equal, some will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true.
To Marry Is To Declare War:
When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance, Rumors, Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, Wife battery, Laziness, winning, nagging, Pride, Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.
There Is No Perfect Marriage:
There is no readymade marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a motor car with a gear oil, gear box, etc If these parts are not properly maintained, the car will break down somewhere along the road and expose the occupant to unhealthy circumstances. Many of us are careless about our marriage… Are you? If you are, please pay attention to your marriage.
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God Cannot Give You The Perfect Person You Want:
God gives you, her or him in form of raw materials in order for you to mold what you desire. You may desire a woman who can pray for 1 hour but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she can improve.
You Are Taking Risk In Marriage:
You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as situation may change, so, leave a room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may get married to her because she’s slim but she becomes a little fat after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will smile at long last.
Marriage Is A Permanent Venture:
Marriage needs total commitment; love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! God hates divorce, though it’s permitted only in extreme cases.
This is not a not an ordinary venture. This has to be permanent. The only thing that has the right to separat you and your spouse is DEATH.
Every Marriage Has A Price:
Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdraw. If you don’t deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate of a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage; you cannot love without giving and sacrificing.
You marriage could be better than others, it’s a matter of knowledge. Do not make mistake in choosing whom you will marry.
The worst thing that can happen to you as said earlier is to get married to the wrong person. So be wise in choosing a spouse. Take your time to study this “To 10 Things You Should Know About Marriage Before Getting Into It”
Take time to learn this and try to put them to work. Do you have any question to ask?
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